Here's why:
Zoe Dianne Pollock was born at 12:30pm PDT, at Lucile Packard Children's Hospital, via
Caesarean-section.
Her birth weight was 2920 grams (6 lbs, 7 oz) and she's 49.5 centimetres
(19.5 inches) long.
As for why she was born 11 days early than her previously scheduled
early arrival...
Monday morning started off like any other normal Monday morning. I got up at
6am to go to the gym with Dan. I got home at around 8am. I asked Sarah if
she'd felt any baby movement, and she said she hadn't. Even after some
jiggling and a cold glass of orange juice, there was nothing.
Not wanting a repeat performance of what happened last time, we wasted
no time in heading to Labour and Delivery to get things checked out. When we
were nearly at the hospital, Sarah felt some small movement, so that was a
relief.
When we got to the hospital, they performed a non-stress test as they have
previously. They spent a good couple of hours with Sarah hooked up to the
monitor, and then the on-call obstetrician asked us how we'd feel about just
having the baby today.
I asked if there was anything particularly concerning about the NST, and the
OB said that she (the baby) was doing marvelously now, but was "less than
marvelous" when we first came in. I haven't had a chance since to ask her if
there was anything untoward observed during the delivery.
Anyway, she (the on call OB) said that rather than have Sarah get stressed
out for the following 11 days, she'd talked with our regular OB, and they
felt that since she was at 37 weeks (and considered "full term") that it was
okay to deliver at that point. At the end of the conversation, it was
upgraded to a recommendation, rather than an option.
So so much for an attempt at VBAC. We got to the hospital at around 9am, and
I think they/we made the decision to deliver at about 10:30am. I had enough
time to race home and grab the camera and race back again, and the next
thing I knew we were all in the operating room, and Zoe was being delivered.
It was amazing getting to see the "extraction". They dropped down the sheet
that was blocking our view of the action right at the end, and I got to see
(and photograph) Zoe's head and whole body being pulled out. She gave out a
little cry, and Sarah and I totally lost it with relief.
Things were a bit of a blur after that. I got to come over and meet Zoe
while they were weighing her and measuring her, and then they bundled her up
and let me take her back to Sarah's head-end on the operating table, so
Sarah could get a look at her.
Sarah handled this C-section better than last time. She didn't get any
nausea, but she still got the itching and involuntary shivering, courtesy of
the morphine.
While they were still putting Sarah's insides back in, Zoe and I went to the
nursery, where they put her under a heater for a little while to warm her up
a bit. Then it was back to the recovery room to have a proper meeting with
Sarah.
Once Sarah was ready to move to the maternity ward, Zoe and I again returned
to the nursery, where she got her first bath, had her umbilical cord trimmed
some more, and her anti-theft device fitted to her umbilical cord clamp.
Then it was off to the maternity ward. I think we were all in the maternity
ward by 3pm.
After a little while, we managed to get bumped to a private room, which was
a lot better than the shared room (the other bed was vacant, but just having
more space made a big difference), and that's where we've been ever since.
I've stayed each night on the roll away bed, helping out with diaper (sorry
Aussies, I've been here too long, and dealt with too many babies, I never
think of them as "nappies" any more) changes, and burping and other
miscellaneous tasks.
Monday night was okay. Tuesday was a bit rough. Sarah didn't get any sleep
on Monday night, and the anaesthesia totally wore off and she was in a fair
bit of pain. She slept better on Tuesday night, and today, the breastfeeding
has been going well, and the post-operative pain is well and truly under
control.
She's lost a bit of weight since delivery (as is to be expected). She was
down to 5 lbs 14 oz (2664 grams) at last night's weigh-in, and at tonight's
weigh-in she came in at 5 lbs 13 oz (2636 grams). So the weight loss is
starting to plateau. We're already supplementing the breastfeeding with
syringes of colostrum/milk that Sarah's pumped previously, so I hope the
weight loss will have turned around by tomorrow night's weigh-in. The
breastfeeding in general is going pretty well as of today. Mum and bub have
both mastered the latch. I think it's just a matter of Sarah's milk coming
in now.
I've brought forward my 7 weeks paternity leave (an excellent benefit Google
offers) to start as of Zoe's delivery. Sarah's Mum arrives on the 19th for 4
weeks, which will be great. We expect to be discharged from hospital on
Friday.
Luckily we were pretty much all ready for this happening a little bit
earlier. We had our last baby classes on the weekend. The nursery is ready
enough to bring a baby home to, so aside from Sarah's Mum being disappointed
that Zoe's going to be a bit older when she first gets to see her, we're all
good.
The WiFi in the hospital is great. We've already Skyped with both
grandmothers and they've had a chance to see Zoe. We've had a steady trickle
of visitors, and the whole baby routine is making the time go pretty
quickly.